How to Gift a Boudoir Session for Your Partner

Let’s be real: giving your partner sexy photos of you is kind of the ultimate power move. Whether it’s their birthday, your anniversary, or just a Tuesday when they’ve been extra cute, boudoir photos are the gift that says: “Here’s a little something to ruin all future gifts. You’re welcome.”

But if you’ve ever Googled “how to gift a boudoir session without making it awkward,” don’t worry, I’ve got you.

Step 1: Book It For You, But Make It For Them

Here’s the twist: the session is for you. The gift? That’s for them.

You're the one who gets pampered, posed, and reminded how drop-dead hot you are. They get the photos, the blushes, the oh-my-gods. Win-win.

Don’t overthink it. You don’t need a six-pack or a lingerie drawer that rivals Savage X Fenty. You just need a willingness to show up as yourself and maybe a killer playlist with some lip gloss.

Step 2: Make It Personal

Want to take it to “legendary partner” status? Add a personal touch. Maybe it’s a note that says, “In case you forgot how lucky you are,” or a shot styled in their favorite shirt. Maybe you recreate the outfit from your first date. Maybe you wear only your smile. You get the idea.

This is a unique birthday gift idea in Los Angeles that doesn’t come from Amazon Prime, and honestly? That’s rare.

Step 3: Choose a Photographer Who Gets It

You’re about to bare more than just skin. You’re showing your soft, spicy, confident side. So you want someone who knows how to capture you without making it feel like a staged Victoria’s Secret ad from 2004.

Lucky for you, this is LA, and boudoir photos in LA are kind of our thing. (Hi, I’m someone who makes people feel like Beyoncé on the daily.)

Step 4: Deliver the Goods Like a Boss

Don’t just toss them the album or send a Dropbox link. Make it a moment. A wrapped gift. A fancy card. A “go sit down and open this with a drink” kind of vibe. Revel in their reaction. Accept your applause.

And when they inevitably say, “Wait… YOU did THIS?!” lean back, raise an eyebrow, and say, “Happy birthday, babe.”

For bonus points, I always recommend wearing your favorite piece of lingerie that you were photographed in under your clothes when you give them the gift. That way when they’re done being totally blown away by the photos you can point to your favorite one and say, “I’m wearing that… right now.” 🔥

Ready to gift a boudoir session for your partner, and feel like an absolute icon while doing it?

I’ve got you. Click here to get started on the ultimate “I love you, but also I’m a goddess” present.

Let’s make some magic!